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Parenting plan mediation

Parenting Plan Mediation Canberra

A calm, supported way to agree how you will raise your children after separation, with their wellbeing at the centre.

What it is

Putting your children first

Separation is one of the hardest things a family can go through, and children often feel it most. A parenting plan is a clear, practical agreement between separated or separating parents about how they will continue to raise their children together, even while living apart.

We help you reach that agreement through mediation: a calm, structured process where an impartial facilitator helps you work through the practical decisions and focus on what matters most, the wellbeing of your children. It is far less stressful, and far less costly, than working it all out through the courts.

You may be ending a relationship, but you are not ending your role as parents. A good plan protects that.
What it covers

What a parenting plan includes

A parenting plan can be as detailed as your family needs. Common things it sets out include:

  • Where the children will live
  • Time spent with each parent
  • Financial arrangements and child support
  • How major decisions will be made
  • Contact with extended family
  • How changes will be handled in future
  • Communication between parents
  • Holidays, birthdays and special occasions
What to consider

Keeping the child at the centre

A good plan is built around the real needs of your children. Together we make sure it accounts for what matters to them.

Age and stage

Arrangements that suit each child’s age, development and routines, and that can adapt as they grow.

Everyday needs

School, activities, health, and the practical logistics of daily life across two homes.

Special needs

Any additional care, support or health needs a child has, built into the plan from the start.

Cultural needs

A child’s cultural identity and connections, including Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultural needs, respected and supported.

The child’s voice

Where appropriate, the child’s own views and preferences, considered in an age-appropriate way.

Safety and stability

Above all, arrangements that keep children safe, secure and shielded from adult conflict.

Mediation resolves most matters without going to court. If your situation needs more than mediation can provide, we can refer you to one of our trusted legal associates, so you always have the right support at the right time. Get in touch to talk it through.

Darleen Barton, founder of DIPAC and Associates, Canberra
Who you will work with

Meet Darleen

I am the founder and director of DIPAC, which I established in 2009. As a nationally accredited mediator with around 25 years of practice, I have helped many separating parents reach workable, child-focused agreements. My role is to keep the process calm and fair, and to keep your children’s wellbeing at the heart of every decision.

  • Australian Counselling Association
  • AIFLAM
  • Mediation Institute of Australia
  • Nationally Accredited Mediator
  • Family Group Facilitator
  • NDIS Provider
  • Accredited Private Health Provider
Ready when you are

Agree a plan that works

Taking the first step is often the hardest part. When you are ready, we will help you build a plan that puts your children first. In person in Canberra, or securely online across Australia.

Good to know

Frequently asked questions

Is a parenting plan legally binding?
A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents. On its own it is not a court order, but it can be an important step, and where needed it can be formalised through the appropriate legal channels. We can explain the options and refer you to a legal associate if you want to take that step.
What if we cannot agree on everything?
That is common, and mediation is designed for exactly this. We work through the sticking points calmly, one at a time. Even where full agreement is not reached, you will usually narrow the issues considerably and reduce what is left to resolve elsewhere.
Can the plan be changed later?
Yes. Children grow and circumstances change, and a good plan allows for that. Many parents build in how future changes will be handled, and you are welcome to return to mediation to update the plan as needed.
Do both parents need to attend?
Parenting plan mediation works best with both parents taking part, since the goal is a shared agreement. We prepare each parent beforehand so the sessions are as constructive as possible.
How is this different from going to court?
Mediation keeps the decisions in your hands rather than a judge’s, and is generally faster, more private and far less stressful and costly than court. It also tends to produce arrangements parents are more willing to stick to, because they shaped them together.
Can it be done online?
Yes. Sessions can be held in person in Canberra or via secure video, which can be especially helpful where parents live apart or find being in the same room difficult.